Before you ask “Where do I find my Soulmate?”, you need to ask if your ready to meet him. What qualities would your soulmate be attracted to? Are you still carrying all the The emotional baggage from past relationships? You have to be open to the possibilities and opportunities for change that your search for a soulmate will bring into your life? If you're looking for a person who is fun, trust worthy and responsible, are you putting your self out there to attract people with these qualities? Are you prepared for love? Are you ready to give love?
Just as you are looking for certain qualities in a soulmate, your soulmate is also looking for certain qualities. The worst thing that can happen to you is you find a person you believe is your soulmate and discover he’s not really into you.It might not be that he doesn't like you, but that he feels you're not the right person for him.Do you admire men who are financially responsible, then more than likely he’s not going to find a woman deep in debt, over the limit and living pay check to pay check a good choice for a mate. But if you started clearing up your debt, living within your means and learming how to Manging your money will him feel more secure that some thing that’s important to him, is also important to you.
To be sure that you’re ready to meet your soulmate ask yourself these 5 questions.
What am I looking for in a soulmate? This is where most women get off track. There are some things that are definite deal breakers, but many things that you might list are not really as important. You’ll never find a perfect person. We all have faults, so you need to decide which of your faults will be acceptable if the major qualities and values are there. Remember the shorter your list the better your possibilities for success. The longer you make your list the more you’re limiting your self and increasing your chance of excluding your soulmate.
What qualities do I need to show to attract my soulmate? What would he like. Think of the type of person you want to attract. What is it about you that would interest him? Do you see your self possessing the qualities you want in him. I’m not saying you should change who you are, but if there are things that you’ve wanted to work on, this is the time to do it. Start an exercise program. Eat more healthier. correct your finances. Start going back to school.You can look for a better job. All the things you put off until later, start them now. Make a list of 5 things you want to work on and start working on them one at a time.
What qualities do i have that will attract my soulmate now? Now that you’ve thought about what you are looking for and what he might be looking for, you can start looking at what qualities you might already have. Count your assets. Count all your blessings. This can be the hard for some people.Ask your friends and family what makes you special. What do they like about you? You might be surprised by many of the answers. What have you been praised for in the past? What special talents and skills do you possess? Make a list and look at it everyday. Add to it often and learn to accept how great you are.
Are you ready to be in a relationship? A lot people enter into a relationship with some emotional baggage. The more emotional baggage you have the harder it is to get on the path to a stable long term relationship. analyzing how we feel about our pasts can be hard. Almost all people don’t want to remember their past relationships. But to succeed in a new relationship you need to look back and let go of any anger or fear that you might have. Realizing you’re a different person and releasing yourself from those feeling are part of growing. Forgive those in your past and move on. Don’t let pain and fear from your past ruin your future happiness. So lighten your emotional load and get rid of some of the baggage. List 5 things in your past and find a way to close the doors on those relationships so you can open new ones.
What do I need to do to attract my soulmate? Get out there and meet some men. You’re not going to attract your soulmate if you don’t find a way to meet him. Put your profile on dating sites like Match.Com, maybe FriendFinder.com or PlentyofFish.com (which is a free site). Join some activities or clubs forthe things you're interested in. Join a gym. Go to sporting events. You could try speed dating. Let your friends set you up a blind date. Just put yourself in places where you can meet single men. Make a list of 5 places where you can meet men and get started.
Being your best will give you confidence. When a woman is confident she give off an energy that attracts men. Your soulmate will find it hard to disregard these qualities. At this point you'll never have to ask yourself “Where can I find my soulmate?” again. You'll be attracting your soulmate to you.
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